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I looove this drama BUT, the FL annoyed me at times. What's bad about her dating someone? Why is she letting her ex use it to control and manipulate her when he is no different? He is about getting married, isn't she allowed to do the same? In a normal sense, her ex is the one who's supposed to take the heat from the children and the court because it's him who cheated on his ex wife and first got engaged to another woman. He started it, but she is the bad guy for finding another love?? It doesn't make sense the way they make her relationship with Kenan a big deal. Its ridiculous. The writer made her seem dumb. The female lead had the higher hand because 1- She wasn't the one who cheated when she was still married to her ex and 2- Her ex husband, Oktay is the reason they cannot be together again as he is already engaged to another woman. Yet, she let him intimidate and guilt trip het for doing the same thing he did?!!!! Like, make it make sense! That part annoyed me like hell.